Dating doesn’t just feel harder than being single or in a relationship, it is. Here’s why: being single carries the sting of shame, being in a relationship carries predictability. But dating? Dating puts you in a nervous system civil war caught between the fear of rejection and the shame of being “still single.” That’s why so many women say: 👉 “I feel crazy when I like someone.” 👉 “I hate games, but I don’t know how else to date.” 👉 “I get attached too quickly or shut down completely.” That’s